Understanding Remote Assistance

by Barry Dysert
(last updated October 20, 2014)


The Remote Assistance application built into Windows enables you to both ask for assistance from others and to offer assistance to others. The only requirement is that both of you are on the network (which could be the Internet) at the same time.

You invoke Remote Assistance by clicking Start and typing "remote assistance" (without the quotes) and pressing Enter. Windows displays the Remote Assistance dialog box. (See Figure 1.)

Figure 1. The Remote Assistance dialog box.

The dialog box presents two options: You can invite someone to help you or you can help someone else. If you're inviting someone to help you, it's important that you trust them. You will essentially be turning control of your computer over to them, so be sure you're comfortable with this.

Asking for Help

To ask someone to help you, click the first option shown in the Remote Assistance dialog box. The options within the dialog box change based on your selection. (See Figure 2.)

Figure 2. Asking someone else for help.

You now need to create an invitation file to give to your helper. If you use web-based mail (like Yahoo! or Gmail), click the first option, which allows you to create an invitation file and save it on your computer. If you use an e-mail client that's on your local computer (like Windows Mail or Microsoft Outlook), click the second option, which mails the invitation file directly. In either case, your invitation file is created so that you can e-mail it to your helper.

Once you've given the password to your helper and emailed the invitation file, you'll be placed in a "waiting state" where you're waiting for your helper to connect to you. During this wait time you'll see a dialog box informing you that it is waiting for a connection. (See Figure 3.)

Figure 3. Waiting for your helper to connect to your system.

All your helper has to do is start Remote Assistance and following the steps detailed in the next section of this tip. If you decide that you don't want to wait, or if you've changed your mind about asking for help, click the Close button and answer "Yes" to the dialog box prompt.

Helping Someone Who has Invited You

To help someone who has invited you to help them, click the second option in the Remote Assistance dialog box. The contents of the dialog box change so you can respond to the assistance invitation. (See Figure 4.)

Figure 4. Responding to an invitation to help.

Click the top option, open the invitation file, and enter the password that was given to you. Your systems will then be connected and you can proceed to give assistance.

Even though Remote Assistance is built into Windows 7 (and therefore free to use), some people find it difficult or overly complex to use. If you fall into this camp, or if you have the need to work with dissimilar computer systems over the Internet, then you may be better served by looking for a third-party remote-access program. There are many of them available, but most charge fees. One free and highly rated one we've located, however, is TeamViewer. More information is here:


 This tip (12169) applies to Windows 7.

Author Bio

Barry Dysert

Barry has been a computer professional for over 35 years, working in different positions such as technical team leader, project manager, and software developer. He is currently a software engineer with an emphasis on developing custom applications under Microsoft Windows. When not working with Windows or writing Tips, Barry is an amateur writer. His first non-fiction book is titled "A Chronological Commentary of Revelation." ...


Making a File Read-Only

If you have an important file that you want to be sure doesn't get accidentally edited, you can set it to read-only. This ...

Discover More


If you have more than one device and want to easily move files between them, Dropbox is the utility of choice. It ...

Discover More

Using Powercfg to Delete an Existing Power Scheme

You may have created a new power scheme for whatever reason, but when it has outlived its usefulness, you want to delete ...

Discover More
More WindowsTips

Understanding IP Addresses

IP addresses are at the heart of computer networking. They are typically handled automatically, but you may find it ...

Discover More

Understanding and Controlling Third-Party Cookies

Cookies can be a good thing, but they can also be aggravating. Here's a high-level explanation about a specific type of ...

Discover More

Setting the Default Search Engine in Microsoft Edge

For some people, search engines are a religious issue. Fortunately, Microsoft Edge has left the door open for you to ...

Discover More

FREE SERVICE: Get tips like this every week in WindowsTips, a free productivity newsletter. Enter your address and click "Subscribe."

View most recent newsletter.


If you would like to add an image to your comment (not an avatar, but an image to help in making the point of your comment), include the characters [{fig}] in your comment text. You’ll be prompted to upload your image when you submit the comment. Maximum image size is 6Mpixels. Images larger than 600px wide or 1000px tall will be reduced. Up to three images may be included in a comment. All images are subject to review. Commenting privileges may be curtailed if inappropriate images are posted.

What is nine minus 4?

2014-10-21 09:02:20


Thanks to Barry. I missed the Teamviewer reference the first time round!

2014-10-20 08:42:45

Henry Noble

Amen to TeamViewer. It is easy to use, astonishingly good, and should be the first choice of anyone needing to provide remote assistance.

TeamViewer is free for personal use, but pricy otherwise.

2014-10-20 08:39:09


I can't say for sure, since I haven't tried it across operating systems. I rather doubt that the built-in remote assistance would work, but maybe you'd have some luck with TeamViewer.

2014-10-20 08:30:56

Brian Hershman

Does remote assistance work between different operating systems?

Suppose I, on a Windows 7 PC, want to remotely assist a friend on an Apple MAC or iPad, is it possible?

Newest Tips

FREE SERVICE: Get tips like this every week in WindowsTips, a free productivity newsletter. Enter your address and click "Subscribe."

(Your e-mail address is not shared with anyone, ever.)

View the most recent newsletter.